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“Remember You Once Loved Your Wedding”
Your wedding day is now but a wonderful memory of the best day of your life. You have all the photos and find yourself reminiscing over them before you fall asleep each night. Perhaps you were one of the first of your family or social group to walk down the aisle, so that means you will have many more wedding days to attend to, as a guest.
As the trends change and new ideas fly out of the box, it is a natural reaction to find yourself comparing and maybe even feeling a little jealous at all of the upcoming weddings you will attend and how they are so different (but not better) from yours.
But beautiful ladies, remember you picked everything for your wedding because it was YOUR wedding and you fell in love with all the ideas and the colors and the trends. Remember the feelings of awe and the complete high that you were on throughout your day as it was everything you could have dreamed of and more.
Instead of comparing your wedding to the others that you will attend (the good and the bad) and be courteous to the fact that there are so many factors that determine a wedding design and celebration such as budget and general taste. While you may be in awe of the wedding that you are attending after yours, engaging in negative comparison will only make you start to regret your wedding day and all the effort that you put into it.
It is easy to compare because you at one time thought that your wedding is the best of the best and that is completely true. Your wedding was a visual masterpiece of your ideas and that is all that matters. Your wedding was the one day that you got to do everything your way and you did it that way because it is truly what you wanted and felt, which is and always will be a priceless emotion.
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