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Let’s start with being honest – weddings are expensive. The dress, the celebration, the photographer, the food, the décor and everything else in between can really add up. But isn’t it wonderful to have family who love you and want to see you have everything for the day you have been dreaming of since you were probably a little girl?!
While your family will probably help you financially where they can (and if that is something you want them to do), does their financial contribution really buy in their opinion?
If you and your fiancé have decided to take any donations from any family member towards your wedding overall or a specific portion of your wedding, like your venue, it is important to get an understanding about what the expectations are from the generous donator. While some will write you a cheque and let you do what you will, others may see their contribution to your wedding as a “buy in” for their opinions about how your wedding should look, feel and taste.
To keep your sanity and your composure intact, girls, you must first and foremost remember that this is YOUR wedding. This is your moment to shine, experience and plan the day as you have dreamed of for so long. Your memories of your wedding planning and wedding day will be with you for the rest of your life, so it is so important to create the day as you have envisioned. If the money that you have received came with strings, it’s time to evaluate if it is really something you need and how you can manage without it.
