Focus on your bride

“Here comes the Bride, all dressed in white” but did you notice the details??? When you’re standing up at the altar and your Bride comes through those doors, make sure you commit all those details to memory.

Trust me, she will ask you how she looked later and you better have a great answer.  You don’t want to have to take a step back, give her the old up and down and then, in true guy fashion say…”sure babe, ya look great”…No, no, no…you’ll need a better answer than that my friend.

When your bride begins her walk down that aisle, lock eyes with her, smile, maybe give her a wink. Then as she starts to walk, she should be looking over the crowd and that gives you a great opportunity to commit as many details to memory as possible to use later.

I suggest starting at the top, the veil, tiara or head piece, you can stare at her cause she’s looking at the guests and trying not to cry.  Make note of the dress, the earrings, is she wearing a necklace? Got that memorized?  Great, now work your way down…what kind of neckline does the dress have?  Sleeves, no sleeves?  By the time your bride has made her way to you, you should be able to recall every single little detail on that dress…and a quick bit of advice if I may…as soon as her Father has passed her hand to you, tell her how beautiful she looks.

Later in the evening when she asks you what you like best about her dress, you’ll have all the details stored in your brain and you can tell her exactly what you liked about the dress and how stunning she looked in her strapless, mermaid cut, lace trimmed dress with chandelier earrings and so on.  It will make her feel so good to know that you have committed exactly how she looked on your wedding day to memory.

Photo Credit: http://www.nvdaily.com/special/brides/

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